Marriage mantra's 3.....Relationship Rules...Some Do's.....

these are the things i learned being married...being married to pawan-a gifted n wonderful person who taught me life..

Some do's--------
*expand n develop the art of sharing not jst the big things but the little delightful things;the book ur reading,the joke tht u hear n hoard fr him,the sunset u call him out to watch,the enchanting unbelievable things u found out.

*make ur home an oasis of quiteness in a noisy world.

*if thr's ever an argument discuss it out n nvr go to sleep with the fight still on.he says tht even if worst happens n u goona feel luv for each other again after say 2 months 2 weeks 2 days or 2 hours or 20 min thn y waste even 2 min in fury n anger...lets talk..y stay away frm each other for even 2 min...

*after an argument,b the first one to say sorry(regardless of whose fault was tht),make amends n plan out a picnic or get together out on the lake or evening at the garden among soothing greens.
even if he will b the first one to break the ice,to say sorry-it will b ONLY he n ONLY he to whom u wud b going to talk ,to open ur heart.so it doesnt matter if u say sorry first.its gr8 to b loved by smeone.get his love back at the earliest.

*give ur partner the utmost importance in ur life,the first preference.leave everything aside for him-all the social frnds,the busy chores,other fun.he is most fun to b with.he's important.he's yours,only yours.be his n love his life

@retain ur differences n individual strong identities n learn to njoy thm.if 2 ppl are absolutely similar thr's no charm left if life.maintaing one's own individuality while still respecting the partner's need is imp. no two ppl are the same but the idea of being wedded is to come together n understand each other.its abt compassion n harmony

@respect is a imp key factor. n give space to each other

@the glue tht keeps a marriage together is the ability to let each other b the way he/she is.trying to force anything-ur habits likes dislikes friends on ur partner will make him suffocated.

@live n let live n thts his favorite.

@enjoy waking up next to each other with luv in ur eyes n cherish tht feeling of absolute joy

@let the child remain in u beside being mature.

@to adapt from living all by urself to being with someone else ,a lot of flexibility is needed

@a marriage works if it has to despite kids n profession..give ur full worth to the relationship n leave beside ur ego

cheers n njoy life.