HAPPINESS is like a butterfly..the more u chase it..the more it will elude it..but if u turn ur attention to other things it will come n sit softly on ur shoulders….
Because we r mostly slugging through our lives ,doom mongering and feeling miserable abt ppl n things tht bother us…basically we struggle to look for happiness contrary to wht saints say tht happiness is within us only….
But as far I can think is tht we are simple ppl n to get happy we need to look around to find simple n pure happiness
Khusian ki talash me door talak dekhti hamari nazar aksar pass se guzarti choti choti khusian ko dekhe se chook jati hai…..
Simple things are our feel gud triggers…I feel tht its not a big deal to feeling or giving happiness..its actually a choice…..happiness---.it’s an attitude…..
-----to feel happy depend on urself n urself only….y shd it b someone else’s duty to make u happy-b it spouse or lover or kids or parents??...attented a wedding yesterday whr parents as usual were saying to daughter ..beta pati ko khush rakhna..but why thy shdnt b saying beta khush rehna…cz if tht happens pati toh apne aap khush rehega..uske ghar ka atmosphere khusnuma toh who apne aap khush…lol..
-----shed the preconceived notion of wht is supposed to make u happy cz in real life it doesn’t happen tht every guy gifts u flowers n talk romantically mushy things all the time… every guy is not like tht.. …but tht doesn’t mean tht thy dnt care or thy luv u any less…. ur guy may b the one who always keeps a check as to if ur car is wrking properly ..n if any problem arises it gets repaired at priority…..take care tht ur gas tank is nvr out of fuel….if ur always carrying sufficient amount of money in ur wallet…..he helps u out at home so tht u dnt tire urself…..he takes care of the kids whn ur indulging in ur hobbies like writing or painting …waits for u with a smile whn u get home everyday…whn he tolerate ur little qiurks with a smile...things like tht..these things make u feel more blessed n precious…I can vouch for it ....lol
-----b practical n do not indulge in self pity..GOD didn’t send u in ths world with a signed bond tht every day of ur life will b trouble free or u will always b happy ..jst happy ..nopes it isn’t bad to b sad sometimes even…n the mess in ur life is surely ur own..so quit the drama of asking .”y me god?”everytime u face a problem…I dnt find it rgt .as to whn ppl face a problem the next moment thy start running to temples without even trying the things on thr own…god doesn’t deserve ur whinning…he hasn’t done bad to deserve ur crying…go to him for strength n sharing but not for blaming him…change ths notion…
----the best n sureshot way of feeling happy is to selflessely do something for someone withgout even thm asking for it n without ever expecting a thank you…in return…
----to b happy …feel happy….smile n think happy…the more u do ths..the more u will b happy…
THINK HAPPY …GIFT HAPPINESS
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