today the day started beautifully with wishes n puja..n whole day is packed with puja's n birthday party...its jeevesh bday..n i remember this day 10 years back the day whn he was born...he was born in afternoon..n whn the doctors gave him in my arms i was exuberant with joy....but just for 5 min.....those were the 5 min whn pawan n sandeep called few ppl to tell them abt his birth..after that doctors declared him to b critically ill. and .has to b shifted to neonatal intensive care unit for indefinite period..he was diagnosed with Peri-robin syndrome with cleft palate with multiple problms with few chances of survival n if survived ..chances of being physically or mentally challenged n may b not able to ever speak properly...but i cudnt listen to wht the doc was telling me at tht time..nor i was concerned ..i was holding the most beautiful baby .to my eyes he was the most beautiful baby....he was so calm n serene n tiny.. he was the bundle of joy..but soon he was shifted to NICU n we all realised wht we were told abt the prognosis..but noone in the family lost the hope in the miracle of god...next we knew ourselves at the intensive care unit 24@7 for the next month..n soon it was in n out of emergencies for few months....everyone in the family stood togehter...inspite of lows n downs days ...he proved to b miracle baby..the family astrologer told tht he wud b vry gud at singing n the doc were skeptical of his speech but he amazed everyone with his recovery..sometimes the conditions seemed worst ...but pawan always said that nothing wud go wrong he was so confident..he had a strong faith..he was in luv with the baby instantly n me too..everyone in the family luved him ..dad n mom named him jeevesh..jeev + ish...thts is ishwar..the one who belonged n survived with his grace..me n pawan use to stay up all nights while at NICU n sandeep n manorma visited numerous times throught the day..monorma face shined whnever she held the tiny baby in her arms...pooja too luved n cared ..she played a gr8 role in teaching him the vocabulary..she took care of him whn we all went to wrk..she played with him fed him..helped mom to take care of him...she wasnt jst his bua but cared with motherly touch...
all day he wud b taught vocabulary..he started learning young .whnever any of us came home he wud b asked same questions..tht wud make all the things repated 7 times..b it body parts or alphabets..or veggie names...anything....may b earlier thm normal kids..he learned the body parts n cud understand the alphabets n started speaking one wrd syllabus..he called me ba from bhabi wht sandeep n puja cld me n pawan be from beer..he started saying wrds after his cleft palate surgery at 2+..but bfr tht he showed the signs of his intelluct..n by four he cud recite hanuman chalisa n he knew the gayatri mantra n mahamrityunja mantra in sankrit he cud recite all of thm ...he learned thm by listening..at home..he cud sing bhajan n all of tv ad's with music effects of ting ding dong etc...
the normal healthier kids of my cousins seemed obese to me as compared to thm n he looked beautiful to my eyes ..jst perfect..after many years whn i saw his pic wht he was bfr his surgery..i was filled with tears at the all nasal catethers he needed to put upto his stomach to b fed...he was tube fed through syringes..n whn he started moving his arms at 4-5 months ..the tubes irritated him n he wud pull thm out n some days nasal catheter tht was put upto his stomach through his nose... were put in 6 times a day with taped on ..on his forehead....n thn he needed to hav suction through suction machine every 2-3 hours to clear his mouth of all the fliud tht got accumulated ..n tht wud block his airways....it was all so scary but he overcame everything....n he filled with joy at his first laughter..his first words..everything..
today its his bday he sings beautifully..wants to learn n own my guitar...has a taste in painting n wants to make ones like me..hes intelligent ..non fussy mini adult vry senisitve n mature ..n has a high intelluect levels...n even the doc at the PGI were amazed..he's a subject-a cute adorable subject of thm n thy keep wondering at hw much he talks non stop....luv u my sunshine u hav given me n pawan joy n sunshine n we luv u .
all day he wud b taught vocabulary..he started learning young .whnever any of us came home he wud b asked same questions..tht wud make all the things repated 7 times..b it body parts or alphabets..or veggie names...anything....may b earlier thm normal kids..he learned the body parts n cud understand the alphabets n started speaking one wrd syllabus..he called me ba from bhabi wht sandeep n puja cld me n pawan be from beer..he started saying wrds after his cleft palate surgery at 2+..but bfr tht he showed the signs of his intelluct..n by four he cud recite hanuman chalisa n he knew the gayatri mantra n mahamrityunja mantra in sankrit he cud recite all of thm ...he learned thm by listening..at home..he cud sing bhajan n all of tv ad's with music effects of ting ding dong etc...
the normal healthier kids of my cousins seemed obese to me as compared to thm n he looked beautiful to my eyes ..jst perfect..after many years whn i saw his pic wht he was bfr his surgery..i was filled with tears at the all nasal catethers he needed to put upto his stomach to b fed...he was tube fed through syringes..n whn he started moving his arms at 4-5 months ..the tubes irritated him n he wud pull thm out n some days nasal catheter tht was put upto his stomach through his nose... were put in 6 times a day with taped on ..on his forehead....n thn he needed to hav suction through suction machine every 2-3 hours to clear his mouth of all the fliud tht got accumulated ..n tht wud block his airways....it was all so scary but he overcame everything....n he filled with joy at his first laughter..his first words..everything..
today its his bday he sings beautifully..wants to learn n own my guitar...has a taste in painting n wants to make ones like me..hes intelligent ..non fussy mini adult vry senisitve n mature ..n has a high intelluect levels...n even the doc at the PGI were amazed..he's a subject-a cute adorable subject of thm n thy keep wondering at hw much he talks non stop....luv u my sunshine u hav given me n pawan joy n sunshine n we luv u .
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